The MBA Illusion
"I went back to school. For two years, I ground away until I earned my first MBA from UAMS in Belgium—one of the top-ranked programs in the world, taught entirely in English. I told myself: 'This is it. Now, they’ll finally see me as a true Business Partner.'
Then came the moment of truth.
The role of Head of Category Management (effectively the company’s lead commercial strategist) opened up. I walked into that meeting armed with flawless KPIs, data-driven results, and my shiny new MBA.
The verdict: 'You’re a world-class specialist, but for this role... we need someone with a different approach.'
They hired an outside candidate. Someone who didn't know our product, our clients, or our internal systems. Meanwhile, I stayed exactly where I was—with my ambitions, the same salary, and a bitter pill to swallow. I wanted the rewards of success: the car, the lifestyle, the recognition. Instead, I felt a systemic failure. I had followed the 'Success Manual' my engineer parents gave me to the letter, but the manual was broken.
My reaction? I doubled down.
Our internal programming is powerful. When doing the 'right thing' fails, we assume we just didn't do enough of it. I spent another year and thousands more dollars on a second MBA, mastering Human Resources, Corporate Finance, and Global Marketing.
I became the 'perfect candidate'—on paper. I had the results. I had the expertise. I had two world-class MBAs. But the hard truth was that I was only a 'Top Executive' in my own imagination. In the eyes of the board, I was still just a highly-qualified tool.